I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality Paperback – September 7, 2021

Great read

I purchased this book to help myself understand someone very important to me and it helps me understand everything I didn't know

Very nice

Good book

If you have someone in your life suffering from an NDP this a a must read. Explains a lot. Gives good strategies to use.

I was introduced to this book by a therapist after describing how my wife acts and reacts. As I read the book, I saw my wife threaded through the pages. Not every single example, of course, but enough that I'm convinced my wife suffers BPD. It helped me understand her better and how to handle things (read: conflict) better--though I still have a long way to go! Now if I can only convince her to get some counseling. She, and I, would benefit from it.

Our daughter, very tragically, has borderline personality disorder. We tried everything for 7 years to fix it, only to have things get worse, until she (thankfully) said she'd never see us again. That was 12 years ago and it's been peaceful since then.Prior to reading this book (recommended by two PhD Psychologists) we kept saying "Why on earth is she doing this?" Now we know it's the disease. It hasn't fixed anything, as nothing can, but it has put us at peace, knowing it's the disease, not us. That's huge. I've recommended it to numerous friends with children/friends/parents with the same disorder and it's been equally helpful in their lives.For the sake of your sanity, GET THIS BOOK!!!

I heard about this old book from another counselor. As I read the book it helped me with one of my clients. The book gave me insight on borderline personality that I never had. The writer was very easy to follow and simple to understand. I do suggest this book to others