F*CK Him! - Nice Girls Always Finish Single - "A guide for sassy women who want to get back in control of their love life" (The Truth about his weird ... of commitment and sudden loss of interest)
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The MANipulator Manual: Keep Your Man Interested and Begging for More Without Playing Games Let me start off by explaining I am in no way talking about the sexual act. F*ck him in this case is not physical, it’s mental. So many women get in trouble in their love lives, and 99.9 percent of that trouble could have been avoided if they’d said, “Well, f*ck him!” a bit more often. Too many women are way too nice and compliant to their men, especially when these men don’t deserve that kind of treatment. And yet, every woman I’ve ever met tries to not be needy or wear her heart on her sleeve. She simply wants to protect her feelings. Nevertheless, most women I’ve coached have had men seem very interested only to disappear suddenly. These women are left standing in the dark. Once the guy vanishes, they often find out it’s easier to get the President of the United States on the phone than the man who seemingly really liked them...just not enough to stick around. This should stop. I, as a dating coach and author of books for women who want to get men, cannot take it anymore. You deserve better. This is not your fault. It’s his! He needs to learn to be much more transparent and upfront. That said, we both know most men won’t change. We can lead a horse to water, but we can’t make it drink. Or can we? What if there was a way to change a guy’s behavior? What if you could get into his head and take over the driver’s wheel? What if you could make him do more of the things that you appreciate and need and less of the bad behaviors you dislike? At first, this might seem impossible. Nevertheless, I’m sure you’ve already met women who are good at manipulating their men. Enter the high-value woman. You know her. You’ve seen her. She’s the woman who always has great men drooling over her. It’s the woman you see getting all the attention. You often wonder, “How does she do it? What do they see in her? What does she know that I don’t?” You might have even complained to your girlfriends that men just don’t seem to notice what a catch you are. Your girlfriends may have even said, “He doesn’t know what he’s missing.” What if you could make him see it? When you look at these high-value women who get their way with men, it might have surprised you that their looks don’t seem to matter. The high-value woman can be great looking, average looking, or even bad looking. It doesn’t matter. She knows her way around men. She knows how to mentally f*ck them. Are you ready to implement her strategies? You’ll see behavior you’ve never seen from him. He’ll start to put in an effort that makes you feel like you’re a queen because to him, you are. At first, it will be strange. If you’ve never truly been in control of a man, it might feel like riding a horse for the first time. But soon, it will make you feel all tingly inside. I’m not kidding. There’s nothing more powerful than being in a relationship with a guy and having him do exactly what you want while he thinks it was his idea. (This is important, as you’ll see. He needs to think he is the one in the driver’s seat, even though you actually are.) This book is not about becoming someone you’re not or turning your boyfriend into a spineless manslave. It’s about your empowerment, about taking back what’s yours. No man should ever be able to play games with you, to take you for granted, to treat you even a tiny bit less than you deserve. By the time you’ve finished this book, this will all be part of your past. Are you ready? Then hit the buy button at the top of this page and start your high value woman journey right away! Review: i threw this book down within a few hours and it is blunt and to the point which i love. I dont want it sugar coated as not ... - Im a fast reader, i threw this book down within a few hours and it is blunt and to the point which i love. I dont want it sugar coated as not to trigger my feelings. We need to wake up to our faults and triggers emotionally if we ever want to be in a happy committed relationship that will last. I gave all my power away to my BF, and just like the book says he is got finding a woman checked off his list, so now he is meeting other needs in life, and im feeling left out in the cold. There is a chance the guy i am dating does not deserve me at all, and with what this book taught me, and some stuff i already knew deep down, but didnt want to admit, i will find out. This will be especially helpful in future relationships if my BF cannot step up, as i will move on even though it will hurt me terribly but self love and self respect are the most important. If you loathe yourself, cant look at yourself in the mirror who cares if you kind of have a man that you love, but isnt treating you with respect. I just wish i bought this book four months ago when i was still single. Now i am going to buy his other book on how to spot players.This is super easy to understand, concise and straight to the heart of the matter without getting to philosophical, which i like sometimes, but right now this was what i needed exactly to wake me up. Up until now i have known i have been devalueing myself, and i know im worth more than i am getting out of this relationship, but keep thinking he will have more time for me its just really busy at work, and he had a bad x who messed him up. WELL so did i, but i dont treat him differently because of it. We all need to be the high value women we really are deep down, we just react instead of think then act. I have always let my emotions run me, and my love life has been a joke. Staying single off and on for about 7 years combined between age 25-34 just from being traumatized, so i get into a new relationship and think he is the one and let that oxytocin lead me. READ THIS IF YOU CAN RELATE TO WHAT I JUST SAID LOL. Review: Spot On!!! - This is perhaps the best book I've read on male behavior. I am always a bit skeptical when reading the advise of others, but you will literally see that he speaks the truth as his words will reflect mistakes we've all made when dealing with men. You will have an aha moment on every page. What I find most interesting about this book, is it is not just for single women. The male psychology he so eloquently breaks down, will serve you for a lifetime. I am married and still found this book to be extremely helpful. Although some of the behavior he speaks of comes naturally for me, I never quite understood what was going on. I was always in the dark about why men treated me so well and my best friend so poorly even though she was always much more accommodating and agreeable, and I was...not. A lot of what I say to her is reflected in this book. I felt hearing it from another man rather than from me might make a difference. I read the preview of this book to decide if I should get it for her. The preview was so spot on that I read the entire book. The entire book was so good, that I indeed will be ordering it for her. I wish I had a dozen copies that I could give to the women I work with as they sorely need to read it. I don't generally take the time to review books, but I almost always read reviews before buying them so I want to do my part in giving an honest review of this one. I don't think I've ever given a relationship book 5 stars. This one deserves 6.
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J**'
i threw this book down within a few hours and it is blunt and to the point which i love. I dont want it sugar coated as not ...
Im a fast reader, i threw this book down within a few hours and it is blunt and to the point which i love. I dont want it sugar coated as not to trigger my feelings. We need to wake up to our faults and triggers emotionally if we ever want to be in a happy committed relationship that will last. I gave all my power away to my BF, and just like the book says he is got finding a woman checked off his list, so now he is meeting other needs in life, and im feeling left out in the cold. There is a chance the guy i am dating does not deserve me at all, and with what this book taught me, and some stuff i already knew deep down, but didnt want to admit, i will find out. This will be especially helpful in future relationships if my BF cannot step up, as i will move on even though it will hurt me terribly but self love and self respect are the most important. If you loathe yourself, cant look at yourself in the mirror who cares if you kind of have a man that you love, but isnt treating you with respect. I just wish i bought this book four months ago when i was still single. Now i am going to buy his other book on how to spot players.This is super easy to understand, concise and straight to the heart of the matter without getting to philosophical, which i like sometimes, but right now this was what i needed exactly to wake me up. Up until now i have known i have been devalueing myself, and i know im worth more than i am getting out of this relationship, but keep thinking he will have more time for me its just really busy at work, and he had a bad x who messed him up. WELL so did i, but i dont treat him differently because of it. We all need to be the high value women we really are deep down, we just react instead of think then act. I have always let my emotions run me, and my love life has been a joke. Staying single off and on for about 7 years combined between age 25-34 just from being traumatized, so i get into a new relationship and think he is the one and let that oxytocin lead me. READ THIS IF YOU CAN RELATE TO WHAT I JUST SAID LOL.
M**L
Spot On!!!
This is perhaps the best book I've read on male behavior. I am always a bit skeptical when reading the advise of others, but you will literally see that he speaks the truth as his words will reflect mistakes we've all made when dealing with men. You will have an aha moment on every page. What I find most interesting about this book, is it is not just for single women. The male psychology he so eloquently breaks down, will serve you for a lifetime. I am married and still found this book to be extremely helpful. Although some of the behavior he speaks of comes naturally for me, I never quite understood what was going on. I was always in the dark about why men treated me so well and my best friend so poorly even though she was always much more accommodating and agreeable, and I was...not. A lot of what I say to her is reflected in this book. I felt hearing it from another man rather than from me might make a difference. I read the preview of this book to decide if I should get it for her. The preview was so spot on that I read the entire book. The entire book was so good, that I indeed will be ordering it for her. I wish I had a dozen copies that I could give to the women I work with as they sorely need to read it. I don't generally take the time to review books, but I almost always read reviews before buying them so I want to do my part in giving an honest review of this one. I don't think I've ever given a relationship book 5 stars. This one deserves 6.
C**2
I'm not that girl...OR are you??
Great book. READ IT. It will make you reflect back on every relationship you've encountered. If you're an open person who doesn't blame everything on everyone else and can take accountability for the role you also play sometimes, you will find this book to be a gem. Wow. Where do I start? First, I am NOT a relationship book type gal. The last one I read was at least 20+ yrs ago. However, I'm now single again after an 18 year marriage ended. Back on the dating scene that now includes online dating and I'm already ready to jump off the nearest bridge. Men and dating in general is just SO different from how it used to be and not in a good way :( I purchased this book out of total frustration after kissing yet another frog who said one thing yet totally acted the opposite. Yet, not knowing my value-I was determined to "make this work". I'd been dating the guy less than a month so I wanted to use this book to help salvage the relationship but ironically, after reading the book (which I did in one sitting) I don't even WANT the guy anymore and ended things. This guy had so many red flags and not only did it become crystal clear to me that I was dealing with a low value guy, but MOST IMPORTANTLY I WAS ABLE TO SEE THE MISTAKES I WAS MAKING AND THE PART I PLAYED WHICH IS PRICELESS!! This book will make you laugh and it will also make you cringe (if you are honest w/yourself) thinking on situations that you know you should have never allowed. It made me reflect on every dating scenario I've experienced lately and 9 out of 10 times I was just not with a high value guy and I was putting up with things out of loneliness and insecurity. To be fair, there was one guy that was definitely a "keeper" but I can see where my neediness and actions basically caused the relationship to crash and burn. The awesome thing is that instead of feeling depressed after finishing the book, I felt empowered and determined to learn from my mistakes moving forward. I definitely plan on using some of the techniques suggested and plan to purchase other books by this author.
E**E
Good guide from man's perspective
Very helpful book... very much like The Rules but written by a man. Great to have a man's perspective. Today I was going to reward my crush for less-than-desirable behavior (didn't hear from him in 2 weeks), but after reading this book last night, I decided not to see him today (he was expecting to see me at an event he was putting on), and go with my other option for the day with a girlfriend. I'm not going to complain, criticize or nag, but simply pull back and not be available. We'll see if it works! My only criticism of the book is that it needed me as editor since some of the grammar and sentences were sloppy and colloquial. (I'm a proofreader.) Otherwise I recommend this if you're clueless about men, as I am!
A**Y
Just What I Needed 😄😄
Love this!! I read it in one sitting & will read it again whenever I'm feeling off-track or even when I just want to enjoy it again. It's very similar to "Why Men Love Bitches" but I like it more because it is short & to the point. There is no filler here. I love the tone of the book, I feel like Brain is a trusted male friend telling me what I need to know with love. One of the examples was exactly what happened to me, a guy being all-in then got spooked & disappeared. My mistake was being too sweet when I should've "cared less" ..this book is just what I needed. It is so on-point with the principle of simply caring less (until a man has committed & proved himself deserving) because I am this way naturally however once I get attached it unfortunately always went out the window. The book's message is so true because I am the way the book says to be with guys who I am not so interested in, & they will not leave me alone! They fall all over me whereas if I started being caring too much they'd be distant. This book shows the way men think & the way you need to be for your own happiness. This book is a friend & will give you back your confidence. This book is great for giving you the kick you need to feel better & act from a place of self-respect - only accepting what you deserve! I am happier after reading this book, it has helped me get over a rough time. Now I have the tools I need. It is mostly stuff I already knew but wasn't following 100% when it comes to being too nice once I'm in love. The psychology aspect gave me some valuable ah-ha moments. For a while now I have realized if only I kept how I was in the beginning when I was always slightly aloof, I would not have lost guys, but didn't want it to be true since I enjoy being loving. It's been something nagging at me, knowing to hold back & care way less is the way to be. This book validated those beliefs & now I am ready to go! Thank you Brian! I recommend this straightforward short type of book compared to a longer one written by a woman. I love things from a man's perspective. This is the winner!
T**Y
This book is a MUST read for all the "TOO NICE" women out there getting HURT/PLAYED/USED by men!
This.Book.Changed.My.Life!!!!!! I just finished reading this book and it has changed my total and COMPLETE view on how I should be handling men and relationships!! All my life, I have been "that NICE girl" that Mr. Nox discussed in this book. For years, I have met men and made the SAME mistakes with them. All of my past relationships were a never ending BAD cycle...and I always got hurt in the end! I have learned SO MUCH from reading this book! I now understand the importance of making sure a man NEVER has a complete HOLD over you! I also understand how crucial it is to make a man WAIT...until you get to know him better. He has to EARN all that you have to offer him! To wrap this up....I understand that I must behave like the HIGH VALUE woman that I am! Every man I come in contact is not going to be, "The one!" I need to utilize my "emotional intelligence" and be clear with myself that what I MAY be feeling for him (in the beginning stages) are JUST FEELINGS and I need more time to discover who he TRULY is! Lastly, I now know that as a HIGH VALUE woman, I will NO LONGER accept the bad behavior of a man! I can just leave and find another who can truly appreciate all that I have to offer. And....if I find myself alone for a while, I will embrace my singlehood and continue to have fun and live a fabulous life!!!! Thank you Mr. Nox for a POWERFUL and informative book that has LITERALLY changed my life!!!!!!!!!!!! This was definitely an awesome read and so worth my time!!! God bless!
L**A
cant stop reading
I cant stop reading this book, each time I learn something new and beneficial, thank you Brian!
E**R
Very good read.
I would recommend this book to the nice girls who go out of their way for their men only to find they are taken for granted down the line. This book reminds you how much power women have when it comes to men and dating. It's not a manner of playing games or toying, it's finding your self respect and living it out according to your wishes and your content and being assertive when the man emits bad or undesirable behavior. When a woman knows her worth and won't take any crap this accumulates to the "high-value woman." This is a great book to understanding why men do the things they do, including the tests and their responses to things. When we ignore the undesirable behavior, they recognize the withdrawal and straighten out. They spend too much time on hobbies, fill your own time and be less available. Be strong, be YOU and keep living your life. Keep up the chase and don't settle because your feelings are telling you to. That may be the oxytocin. I've seen it in the relationship I'm in now. I pull back or seem unavailable, he notices and asks the questions. The high-value woman doesn't. She knows she's good with or without him. I'm happy I found this book. This is the start of the road to recovery from being the nice girl for so long.
L**.
Fantastic advice
I really love the way this writer is truthful and honest and portrays the truth behind how a man really thinks and how to behave to keep a good relationship going or get rid of a bad one. He gives no nonsense advice on relationships and how to behave as a high-value woman, one who knows how to handle herself in a relationship at all times whether engaged, married or at the start of a relationship. I need to read it again so that all the booknotes that I have stick to my mind so that I am able to apply them in real life. I hope this author continues to write as I have read most of his books and am yearning for more. Thanks Brian
D**A
Good book
It's goodbook
A**K
tolles buch
Hat mir sehr die Augen geöffnet. Werde es mir mal wieder durchlesen. Kann es jeder Frau empfehlen. Eye opener h
C**E
Why didn't I get it before?
It's super well written! The author brings clarity to our attitudes towards men that haven't taken us anywhere we wish- except the opposite. Get this book immediately!
Y**O
Simply amazing!
I found this book, without really knowing much about the author. But it was a great surprise to see that it's simple AMAZING! Great book!! Definitely worth reading it.
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