Assertiveness Workbook: How to Express Your Ideas and Stand Up for Yourself at Work and in Relationships Paperback – 1 September 2022

It was a gift, my friend loves it & is looking forward to working through it.

Absolutely awesome book.

Ok but price is high

The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy Paterson is an exceptionally helpful, well written, engaging skill building book that I have read and re-read to encourage personal growth in assertive communication. How do we change ourselves to become respectful and effective in the dance of 'showing up' in conversations? This book with access to online videos and printable 'score cards' will engage you in a learning process you will not want to pass by.

Si tu problema es la falta de asertividad en tus relaciones personales y/o profesionales, este es tu libro.En el libro aparecen un sin fin de situaciones cotidianas, en las que la falta de asertividad, por miedo o temor a lo que piensen los demás o uno mismo, desemboca en un conflicto aún mayor. Se repasa poco a poco el proceso para atreverse a decir lo que uno piensa, desea o necesita, sin imponer y sin mandar.Incluye ejercicios prácticos. Muy bien redactado.

Book is as described

It is my experience that few people have strong communication skills -- are capable of gracefully disagreeing, giving opinions, asserting boundaries, confronting people. Most of us either go along with others, try to pacify, avoid confrontation and never say "No," (the passive style) or we boss others around, intimidate them, and force them to give in to "our way" (the aggressive style). There is also the passive-aggressive style which attacks indirectly in order not to take responsibility -- by forgetting, having "accidents," being late, or being slow in responding to a request agreed to. AND sometimes, hopefully more and more, we use the assertive style. The essence of assertiveness is assuming responsibility for your own behavior and acknowledging your thoughts and preferences honestly while also respecting the feelings and opinions of others. Paterson notes that each of these styles is used by all of us at one time or another; and we each have a style we use most.The book is an excellent handbook which will increase your awareness of yourself and others in all interactions. Further, the author guides you step by step into increasing your flexibility of responses. First, Paterson has assessments for determining which of these four styles you use most. He also explores how we learn these behaviors and when it is appropriate to use each. Beginning with the easiest situations in your own life, you start practicing the assertive style. One of my favorite exercises was called: A Walk in Town. The idea is to practice overcoming passivity by the way you walk. You use a favorite actor or dancer as a model of confidence. The best guide for me was: let your chest enter the room first, not your nose. Although the subtitle of the book emphasizes overcoming passivity, this book is also for those who are overly aggressive. Aggressive persons might be less likely to perceive a problem, but overuse of the aggressive style usually indicates a fear of being out of control and tends to keep us distant from others. This book is a fine resource for personal relationships, for work situations, or conflict management. It is readable, workable, and fun.

This is great book. Very practical and easy to understand. It talks about the different ways of interacting and it helps you to identify how you approach conflict. And you recognise how others work too. It's a very useful self help book and I recommend it highly. I borrowed it from the library initially but was so impressed I bought my own copy.